Nilanjana Pal

Nilanjana Pal

Female

24 Jan

asansol

India

India

Two sides of the coin

My ART4FREEDOM is about if we can really retain freedom in a relationship? It’s scary how easy relationships can become controlling? Even between people, who consciously try to avoid it. Most people want to be free and don’t want to be in a relationship, where they feel controlled but, at the same time, it’s important to feel united. They’re two sides of the same coin that can be hard to balance. There’s something rooted within us that makes us want to form bonds with other people. It isn’t logical or even physical; it’s a spiritual need. The spirit wants to be free, but also in a relationship. Granted, there are many virtues to choose from such as loyalty, honesty, truthfulness, respect, integrity, fidelity, peacefulness and being just; each one with their unique merit. Yet, none compare to freedom. Freedom clears debts. Freedom is the open space, in which true love can prevail. It is beautiful in its own right. Wars are fought in its honour. A relationship is always like a free zone, where we have a circle, in which we can smoothly say anything of our fears, dreams, hopes and loves. We don’t hesitate that if I say something, the other person might think something of me. It's always been a bond in relationships, which give us this strong feeling of freedom. A loving relationship is one, in which the loved one is free to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved and to be himself. IAM4FREEDOM!

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